Okay so my roommate Delaney walked into the kitchen last Tuesday, looked at the windowsill, and just went “when did we become people who own SEVEN vases.” Seven. I counted after she left the room and it was actually nine, which I did not correct her on, because some information is better kept to yourself.
Here’s the thing though. None of them are big. That’s the part she missed. My apartment is one of those Chicago railroad units where the “dining room” is technically a hallway with ambitions, and I do not have the square footage, the shelf space, or frankly the will to live, for a single giant statement vase situation. What I have is a lot of tiny surfaces.

The top of the radiator cover. A two inch strip of counter next to the coffee maker. The corner of my desk that isn’t currently covered in ring lights. And it turns out small vases are basically the only category of home object that actually respects those spaces instead of fighting them.
I got into this by accident, if I’m honest. I bought one bud vase off a whim because it was $6 at an estate sale and looked cute holding literally nothing, and then it became a whole thing, the way everything becomes a whole thing for me, where suddenly I’m the person scrolling vintage glass listings at midnight going “that one’s only four inches tall, I NEED it.” Delaney’s reaction was correct. Nine is a lot. But I’d argue it’s a lot in the way owning a lot of earrings is a lot, they’re small, they don’t take up real estate, and somehow having options makes the whole apartment feel more lived in rather than more cluttered, which is not a sentence I expected to be defending to my own roommate over breakfast.
What I actually want to get into here isn’t just “here are cute little vases,” because that’s boring and also every single home account on the internet has done that post. I want to talk about what actually works when you have almost no space to work with, what you put IN them when you don’t have a garden or a standing florist order (most of us don’t, let’s be honest), and which ones photograph like a dream but are secretly annoying to live with day to day. Because that gap is real and I’ve fallen into it more than once.
[Small Vases]
Bud Vases for a Single, Slightly Dramatic Stem
Okay so bud vases are the gateway drug of this whole category and I will die on that hill. We’re talking narrow necks, usually under six inches tall, built to hold exactly one stem and make it look like it’s the only flower that ever mattered. I have a little amber glass one from a thrift store in Wicker Park that’s held everything from a single grocery store ranunculus to, and I’m not proud of this, a piece of dill I stole off my own cutting board because it looked pretty and I was mid filming a video and needed a prop in about ninety seconds.
The thing nobody tells you about bud vases is how forgiving they are for people who kill plants, which is me, completely, I have sent so many pothos to an early grave. A single stem doesn’t need feeding or trimming or a weekly water change ritual, you just swap it when it wilts, which for a $4 grocery store carnation is genuinely like ten days later. It’s low commitment floral decor for someone whose track record with living things is embarrassing.
Where they actually shine is repetition without redundancy, if that makes sense. I’ve got three on my desk right now in slightly different heights, one holding a stem of eucalyptus that is honestly probably fake at this point because I forgot to change the water for three weeks and it still looks the same, don’t ask me the science. They photograph incredibly on camera too, that shallow depth of field thing where one bud vase in the foreground makes the whole shelf look intentional even if everything behind it is chaos, which, in my apartment, it is.
Landlord verdict, since I know you’re wondering: zero risk. No nails, no water damage if you’re not an absolute disaster with a watering can, and they leave with you on move out day in a shoebox, not a moving truck.
[Bud Vases]
Tiny Groupings Instead of One Big Arrangement
This is the one I sent to the apartment group chat with the caption “is this too much” and got back exactly one reply, from my friend Jonah, that just said “no such thing,” which I’ve chosen to take as gospel.
Groupings solve a problem I didn’t know I had until I had it, which is that one small vase on a big empty surface can look kind of lonely and accidental, like you forgot to finish decorating. But three or four together, all different heights, different shapes, maybe two different finishes, suddenly reads as a whole deliberate moment instead of an afterthought. I do this on top of my radiator cover with a little cluster, a squat white ceramic one, a taller ribbed glass one I got for basically nothing during a Target clearance run, and one genuinely ugly little thing shaped like a pear that I keep because it makes me laugh every single time I look at it.
The trick, and I learned this one the hard way after my first attempt looked like a garage sale table, is odd numbers and uneven heights. Three vases the exact same size just looks like you bought a set and didn’t try. Three vases where one’s four inches, one’s six, one’s barely three, that looks curated, and I’m only using that word here because I’m specifically not allowed to and it’s funny.
Fill wise, you don’t even need matching flowers. I’ll do one stem of something in each, different colors, different textures, and let them argue with each other a little. It’s messier than a single big bouquet but it’s also way more interesting to film, and it means when one flower dies you’re not throwing out an entire arrangement, just swapping the one offender.
[Small Vase Groupings]
Skip the Flowers Entirely
Controversial opinion coming, and I fully expect pushback, but small vases do not need flowers in them at all, and honestly some of my favorites in my apartment right now have never held a single stem.
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I’ve got one holding nothing but three dried out branches I picked up on a walk near the lake, they’ve been in there since October, they cost me nothing, and they still look completely fine sitting on my bookshelf between two paperbacks I haven’t finished. I’ve got another, the little pear shaped one from the grouping section, currently holding a handful of paintbrushes because I ran out of desk organization and it was just sitting there being cute and empty, which felt like a waste.
This is genuinely the answer to the “what do I even put in this thing” question that I know half of you are actually here for. Dried pampas grass bits, a couple of cinnamon sticks if you want your whole apartment to smell like a candle you didn’t buy, matches, if you’re into the whole aesthetic of a vase full of strike anywhere matches which, controversial, I am. Even just water and nothing else, a clear glass bud vase with plain water in it catches light in a way that looks kind of magic on camera, I did not expect that and now I do it constantly.
The real appeal here is zero maintenance. No wilting, no changing water, no random Tuesday where you walk past and go oh god that flower has been dead for six days. My mom would call this cheating. I call it sustainable decor for someone who has genuinely never once remembered to water anything on a schedule in her adult life.
[Non Floral Vases]
The Windowsill and Countertop Situation
I’m giving this its own section because it’s a specific problem and I think a lot of you have this exact same layout issue, which is a kitchen or bathroom windowsill that’s maybe five inches deep, useless for basically anything, and just sitting there collecting dust and old receipts until you put something on it.
My kitchen windowsill fits exactly two things side by side without them touching, I measured, it’s not a big flex. I keep a squat little vase there, the kind that’s wider than it is tall so it can’t tip over when I inevitably bump it reaching for the dish soap, holding whatever herb I’ve bought and will use maybe forty percent of before it goes sad in the fridge drawer. Basil in water on a windowsill actually roots, which felt like a genuine plot twist the first time it happened to me, I panicked and texted a photo to nobody in particular because I was that excited.
Bathroom windowsills are a different beast entirely because of the humidity and the fact that anything porous is going to have a rough time. I switched to a small glass one in there after a ceramic piece I loved started getting this weird bloom on the glaze within a couple months, genuinely gross, and I threw it out immediately rather than investigate further. Glass or sealed ceramic only in there, learned that one properly the hard way.
The other thing about windowsill vases specifically is scale, they’ve got to be small enough that they don’t block light, which sounds obvious until you buy one that’s slightly too tall and spend two weeks with a weirdly dim kitchen wondering what changed.
[Windowsill Vases]
Color and Novelty Shapes, the Trend Bit
Fine, this is the section where I admit I get swept up in stuff before I’ve actually lived with it, because that’s just who I am as a person and this whole site apparently makes me say that out loud now.
Colored glass vases, the squiggly wavy ones specifically, have been everywhere for a while and I bought two the second I saw them because they looked incredible in every single video I filmed with them, that amber and green combo catches light in a way plain glass just doesn’t.

My honest week two update though, one of them chipped at the base within about ten days because the wavy shape means it doesn’t sit flat and I kept catching the edge moving it around my desk. Sorry to the several of you who bought one because of a video I posted before I’d tested that part.
Novelty shapes, the little vases shaped like a torso or a mushroom or, my personal weakness, tiny ceramic hands holding a single stem, are genuinely more fun in person than I expected, and they don’t even need flowers most of the time because the shape itself is doing the visual work. But they’re a “one, maybe two, in the whole apartment” situation, not a collect them all thing, because I did briefly try collecting them all and my shelf started looking like a gift shop.
[Colorful Small Vases]
Final Thoughts
If there’s one thing nine, sorry, apparently now ten, small vases has taught me, it’s that tight spots aren’t actually a limitation on this stuff, they’re kind of the whole appeal. You don’t need a dining table centerpiece moment to make a room feel considered. You need a windowsill with one good stem on it, a little cluster on a radiator cover that took you four tries to arrange right, and permission to leave one completely empty because dried branches and good light are doing enough work on their own.
Delaney still thinks it’s excessive, and honestly, fair, from the outside it probably does look like a problem. But every single one of them fits somewhere nothing else would, and none of them needed a drill, a landlord conversation, or a single square foot I didn’t already have going to waste. That’s the whole pitch, really. Small doesn’t mean small effort, it just means the effort goes somewhere you’d otherwise ignore.





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